Robert Kirby: The risk in finding your one and only

I come from an age when romance blossomed through personal interaction. Eye contact, shy smiles, deliberately planned encounters and outright infatuation were how relationships developed.Face-to-face evaluation was a great culling mechanism for love. Like car shopping, it gave a person the opportunity to gradually test whether things would work. And these were elements that required actual proximity.Did the person have horrible breath? Was she shallow and vapid? Was he a bully? And/or did the ot