Asta Bowen: Like it or not, we learned a few things in 2020

I have to admit, I almost feel sorry for old 2020. It’s been catching a lot of hate these days, and not without cause. Of course, the year we call 2020 — with the obligatory eye-roll — isn’t an actual force unto itself, just a measure of time, one of the handy concepts we use to create a sense of order in the universe.And there’s the rub. What this year took from us, along with far too many loved ones, is order itself, our sense of control over how life should go, o