You can’t take this away from me

This commentary is by Henriette Mantel, a Vermont-born writer, actress and producer, best known for playing Alice Nelson in the “Brady Bunch” movies and for co-writing and directing the Sundance documentary “An Unreasonable Man.”I’m sure not many of you remember the chorus of a song the Gershwin brothers wrote in 1937 — “No, they can’t take that away from me” — but lately I’ve been singing it a lot. Not about a love gone wrong but