12-08-2025 19:45 via thestranger.com

Zone Police

Got problems? Yes, you do! Email your question for the column to mailbox@savage.love!by Dan SavageCan you expand on your “zone of erotic autonomy” concept? It has been a big help to me in my relationship, but I’m wondering where the autonomous zone’s boundaries are. My partner is a major porn and masturbation enthusiast, and over the years, it has caused a lot of friction — the good kind for him, the bad kind for me. We have come close to breaking up over thing
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