Swinging Couple Stood Up By Potential Third Wants Revenge

by Dan Savage
We're a open couple in our 30s, and we do threesomes with bisexual guys. It usually goes like this: we find them on a swinger site or Grindr, text a bit for establishing mutual interest/screen for red flags, go for a coffee and then invite them to the boudoir. We don't do this very often, in part because guys who are interested in this are few and far between.
Recently we got to the second point on the flowchart with someone we met online and agreed to meet for a cup of coffee. We