She's Thinking About Divorce But Plan A and Plan B Both Suck. Is There a Plan C?

Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
I have problem that I’m sure you heard before yet feels very unique to me. I am a late-30’s lesbian married to a late-30’s lesbian and we have a child together (elementary-aged). My wife and I are both good, kind people, we get along well, we both love each other (even if we don’t always like each other), and yet… we are not a good match. We both agree that we got married to young (25) and too soon. We have had therapy, in