She Cheated... Now What?

Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
I'm a female in my late 20's, married to my husband for three years but together for ten. This past year has been a doozy. We're both addicts and our addictions significantly worsened. Our relationship became co-dependent, toxic, and we were both very unhappy. Sex was a point of contention. I was unfaithful three times, he found out, and it forced us both to take a real look at ourselves and what our relationship had become. I'm the CPOS. He could and m