Savage Love Letters of the Day: Reader Advice Round-Up

by Dan Savage
Readers and listeners send me smart emails—and sometimes very good advice—for other readers and listeners. There are comments threads on every column posted to www.thestranger.com (and on every podcast at www.savagelovecast.com), so most of these emails are from people reading my column in other publications. Since I hate to see anything go to waste—especially good advice—I'm gonna to try posting a selection of these emails to Slog on Thursdays.
So! In respo