Savage Love Letter of the Day: Well-Adjusted People Problems

I’m a straight woman in my late 20s and I have a problem and it’s your fault.
Let me back up. I feel great about sex—conceptually, personally, interpersonally, in practice, all of it. This is largely your doing, as I’ve been reading your column for almost 15 years and your perspective was integral in helping me avoid the hang-up landmines that littered my religious upbringing. In fact, the only residue of religious judginess that stuck around as an adult was a sense of ge