Savage Love Letter of the Day: Strap-On Tools

by Dan SavageI'm 40 and newly divorced. Our sex life was in the toilet and had a large part in our split. I've dealt with ED for the past few years and have had limited success with meds and right before my wife ended things, I was scheduled to visit a urologist and start some kind of alternate treatment to get things back on track. Turns out my testosterone is very low and I'm about to get on a program with my GP to get that up to better levels.
I own that I did not take good care of myself and