Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-Up

by Dan Savage
Welcome to week three of Reader Advice Round-Up. Got some advice you wanna offer up to a Savage Love reader or Savage Lovecast listener? Or maybe you've got some advice for me? Send it over to mail@savagelove.net and we'll slog through it.
In response to my comments to (Not) ALWAYS:I've been reading your column for years and know that you value consent and would never endorse anything that harms children or people who are vulnerable. Which is why I wanted to point out how the use o