Savage Love Letter of the Day: Object Lessons, Cont.

My husband is attracted to non-op trans-women. He's a big Bailey Jay fan, and we've bought and used pegging toys that allow him to (at least partially) experience his fantasy. It's a part of his sexuality that I've always known about and never questioned, until we recently considered opening up our relationship to meet needs that the other person can't. (I'm bisexual, he likes women who have dicks.) We thought about creating OKC profiles but I wondered, would it be wrong for him to include his i