Savage Love Letter of the Day: Intropervert Dumps Extropervert

Gay male in my late twenties here. I recently ended things with a guy I had been dating for about two months. Our relationship started as a strictly sexual one. We're both involved in the kink scene in our city and have interests that align in a particularly great way. Very quickly it became clear that there was more of a connection than just a sexual one. The next two months were pretty great! We spent several nights a week together, me often spending the night at his place, I even had a toothb