Savage Love Letter of the Day: Daddy Issues

by Dan Savage
I'm a gay guy in my twenties who is reluctantly attracted to older guys. I don't ever see myself marrying someone who is twenty years older than me, I could never be in a public relationship with one either, and I can think of a number of other reasons why I shouldn't find DILFs attractive, but I like them nonetheless. I don't need to think about whether or not I could marry every guy I look at or go home with, but I've never had a boyfriend and I'm tired of it. I want to stop wast