Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Three Word Answer

by Dan Savage
Recently, I moved from a small town to a big city in the Pacific Northwest. There's a bar by my house and I met the female bartender about a month ago, coming with a friend. Turns out that many LGBT crowd tend to frequent the bar, some of whom became my friends, and I happen to be one of a few straight males to go there. There are many couples but not many single straight males. (Just got divorced btw.) I liked this woman from first sight. Two weeks ago I said something disrespectf