Savage Love: Interabang

by Dan Savage JOE NEWTONI'm 28 years old and live in the Midwest. I'm intersex, but I identify as female. I am not out about being born intersex. Due to surgeries and hormones, I look like a fairly attractive female. I have been hanging out with a chill hetero guy, and things are getting very flirty. Is it unethical of me to not disclose my intersex-ness to him?
In New Terrific Erotic Romance
"We all have to make decisions about what we disclose to partners or potential partners and when we disc