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Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
Recent Savage Love Letters of the Day: This letter writer must stop seeing this wonder-performing, mind-boggling cumdump, a straight guy wants his girlfriend to find him a dick to suck, and a "thorsty" asexual who sometimes loves sex. And, as always, last week's column and Savage Lovecast.
For TSA, the asexual who would like you to go down on her (but who would not like to go down on you):Longtime reader/listener (since ‘99!) here. You neglected t