Reader Advice on Jerking Off and Eating Too Much

Savage Love Letter of the Day: Reader Advice Round-upby Dan Savage
Recent oldies: His wife says he can't jerk off, but it helps him focus! This guy is up to his eyeballs in covet—Is it time for a divorce? She's turned on when she forces her boyfriend to eat, but is she forcing him to eat too much? And, as always, last week's column and Savage Lovecast.
First, jerking off:I'm a female, a feminist, and a lesbian (which maybe makes my opinion on this useless) but "You can't do what you want t