One Lost Erection Destroys Straight Man's Confidence

Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
I am in desperate need of some help and I don't know where to turn! I am a married, straight male, in love with my beautiful wife of nine years and I am in an unbelievably negative cycle/mental-state concerning "performance-anxiety." About six months ago, the first "symptoms" popped up: right in the middle of sex I lost my erection. The next time we were intimate, trouble again: couldn't get it up. In my panic, I ordered some Viagra online and have been