Her Husband Is Taking Viagra on the Down Low—Should She Tell Him She Knows?

Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
Just found out through snooping that my husband is taking Viagra. I saw a message come through from his doctor so I logged into his self-service page (by guessing his password) because I was concerned he had other health problems he was keeping from me. (He recently suffered a rare form of arthritis that had him basically immobile for a year.) It makes sense. Of course he's taking it. I'm not annoyed or angry. I'm honestly happy I didn't find something