Her Husband Demanded a Monogamous Commitment but Describes Their Marriage As Open

Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
I have been with my husband for nine years. We started off monogamous (standard straight couple non-conversation) and had super hot sex for the first four years. We opened up to threesomes, swinging, and I was given permission to do whatever I liked with women. None of those things happened, but it was nice to know we could eventually when things cooled down.
At six years together, when we were about to get married, my then-boyfriend/now-husband informe