He Cheated With an MTF Sex Worker. Is It Inevitable That He'll Cheat Again?

Savage Love Letter of the Dayby Dan Savage
I am really struggling with an issue and am wondering if you might be able to help. I'm a married guy in my 40s. As long as I can remember, I've enjoyed getting stimulated anally. About seven years ago, I discovered trans porn, which led to fantasizing about actually having sex with a MTF trans sex worker. During a time of great personal stress, three years ago, I impulsively hired a trans SW. I really enjoyed the sex (performing oral and receiving anal