Happy Spanksgiving

Got problems? Yes, you do! Email your question for the column to mailbox@savage.love!by Dan SavageI’m gay and go to a small liberal arts school. I have a crush on this one guy, but he brought up — unprompted — that he’s Aro/Ace. I really like him. We have great conversations in a lab we have together, and I think he’s super attractive. But every time I’ve tried to extend our friendship outside of the lab by suggesting we study together or go see a movie w