A Middle-of-the-Night Email Exchange

by Dan Savage
Sometimes I can't sleep. Sometimes when I can't sleep, I check my email. Sometimes I respond to an email in the middle of the night and the person I wrote back writes me back. Last night was one of those nights...
Hi, Dan. How are you? I need your help, please.
Insecure Male Seeking Advice, Dan
What can I help you with? — DanI heard you say on a Netflix special about monogamy that you and your husband have been non-monogamous for twenty years. I am 25 years old and my bo