[RHYMES WITH CRAZY] Who’s to blame? Mom, that’s who.

See this story at BrooklynPaper.com.By Lenore Skenazyfor Brooklyn PaperRemember the bad old days when a rape victim would show up in court and the defense attorney would say, “Why was her skirt so short?” As if the woman caused her own rape.Only gradually did it dawn on us what was really going on: We were “blaming the victim.” Basically, we’re all so afraid that something awful like this could happen to us or a loved one that we automatically come up with a way to