Ask Amy: This gentleman prefers women’s wear

Dear Amy: I’ve been divorced for several years. I have dated a few gals, but nothing serious … until recently. A lady friend and I are seeing more of each other, but, in old-fashioned terms, “taking it slow.”
Regardless, I’m sure we’ll soon end up being intimate.
For about the past 20 years or so, I’ve worn ladies’ underwear, mostly panties and camisoles, but, on occasion, bras and nighties.
I’m not a crossdresser in that I don’t wear