Successful Aging: Why do some people handle the pandemic better than others?

I have not been able to figure out the next three months of my life. During that time, the anniversary of the deaths of several family members will occur. Perhaps I am still grieving and the pandemic has made these previous losses just worse. And yet I know others have been able to take advantage of this time-out and are doing well. Is there something I can learn from them? H.N.
Dear H.N.
We are experiencing the most disruptive time of our lives. For many of us, it is a time of loss. That might