Shedding concerns about a statistically “correct” family size

“You’re done, right?” That’s how I began this column  in April 2014, when we had two children. “It’s a question we get a lot, my wife and I, though it’s not really a question, is it? It’s more of a statement — or even a challenge,” I wrote then, going on to detail the ways friends and family would argue that having two kids is ideal.
“Two is perfect because there will be no middle child, and everyone knows how rough it is bei