How to find yourself under the mess of proscrastination

Most of us don’t set out to make a mess of things.
Life gets full, days get crowded and we tell ourselves we’ll deal with that one small thing tomorrow. If we’re honest, most messes don’t begin with big decisions — they begin with the tiny avoidances we think won’t matter.
But they do. They always do.
And when the mess finally becomes visible, many people interpret it as failure.
Let me offer a different view: Messes aren’t failures – they’re