IDG Contributor Network: 2-step process: give and take advice

Growing up, life seemed simple. I relied on my education and intuition, because I thought I knew better I routinely dismissed the advice my mother offered.  Years later, I understood that her wisdom was timeless. My mother said, “if everyone put their problems in a bag, you would choose your own.” The lesson was not to compare yourself with others, because you never know what is really going on with them.  Sadly, I did not appreciate this advice.When I am told what to do I