How to be human: is love worth it?

Leah Reich was one of the first internet advice columnists. Her column "Ask Leah" ran on IGN, where she gave advice to gamers for two and a half years. During the day, Leah is Slack’s user researcher, but her views here do not represent her employer. You can write to her at askleah@theverge.com and read more How to be Human here.
Hi Leah,
I'm really hoping you can help me work some things out. I've just come out of a four-year relationship with a man who I still love and just can't seem to