What I’m really thinking: the trans employee

I’ve tried hard to convey to people how much it means to me to be addressed as ‘he’ but when people still get it wrong for the 60th or 70th time, it hurtsWhen I transitioned from female to male, I knew it would take time for the regular customers where I work to adjust. It’s a small town and many hadn’t met a trans person before. It’s been three years now, though, and while some very dear, cherished customers do use my preferred pronouns, it hurts and frustrat