'She doesn't notice what I've done': five couples on how they split the housework

One of you makes the bed, the other’s a messy cook. Does it matter? Households from around the world share their dirty secrets• Oliver Burkeman on the housework gender gap• For more housework tales, listen to our Home Truths episode of The Story podcastStephen Driscoll, 45, a high school teacher, and Ai Driscoll, 38, who works in sales, live in Chiba prefecture, Japan. They have a four-year-old son and a baby due in March, live in a three-bedroom house, and don’t have a cle