Planning my wedding as a non-binary bride

‘I couldn’t even pick a pronoun. How was I supposed to decide what costume to wear on one of the most important days of my life?’I never wanted to be a princess in white. I wasn’t one of those little girls who dreams of her wedding day – I wasn’t a girl at all. I saw myself as grubby, an animal. I was happiest in overalls and didn’t mind when other people asked me if I was a boy or a girl. I liked being difficult to nail down.When I was young, there was