My wife refuses to work yet demands a cleaner

If I ask what she does all day, she swears at me and says I am a typical male abusing her. Meanwhile, I have a six-hour daily commute, and can’t even contribute to a pension because of travel costsI am in my 60s, and 16 years ago, under pressure, moved 100 miles from my work so my wife could be close to her ageing parents, who have now died. House prices have rocketed in the city where we lived so a return is unlikely. I have a six-hour round-trip commute and can’t contribute to a pe