Find it hard to make a big decision? Don't overthink it | Oliver Burkeman

If no option stands out, you could just flip a coin – often you are simply taking a stab in the dark anywayWhy is it that big, consequential life decisions – whether to have kids, marry a specific person, pursue one career path over another – can feel so agonising? It seems like a stupid question. Obviously, it’s because they really matter. Yet, on closer inspection, that can’t be the whole story. All sorts of other decisions “really matter”, too: whethe