Experience: I’m a divorce party planner

All of our big life transitions – birth, marriage, death – have a ceremony or ritual. Until recently, there was nothing for divorceI threw my first divorce party in 2003. My closest friend had been jilted by her fiance – who had abruptly gone back to his ex-wife – and she was a mess. I’d read about a breakup party in an advice column and decided it could be a fun way to let her know that she was loved and supported.We made the whole event about heat: we wa