I know my mom is getting older. Seeing it is different from knowing it.

The author has lived abroad half her life.Courtesy of the authorI've lived about half of my adult life either overseas or traveling.It's been more than 13 years since we've lived on the same continent.My perspective on our relationship and the one with my own daughter is shifting in real time.Time is a funny thing, mostly because it's a construct, but it has a way of forcing people to see things differently, even when they might not want to. I hadn't spent long stretches of time with my mom unti