Prog-no-thanks

The first thing people ask when you tell them you have incurable cancer is, "what's your prognosis?"It used to surprise me, but not anymore. It's become the norm. There are plenty of other questions that could be asked - "how are you feeling?", "can I do anything to help?", even - "do you need a hug?" Anything but, "so, how long until the doctors think you're going to die?"!!I have secondary breast cancer. I know that I'm going to die sooner than I should. What I don't want to know is a rough es