My husband lied about visiting a lapdancing club – how do we regain trust?

This isn’t the first time he’s lied to me about his behaviour – I also discovered he had been paying for pornMy husband and I have been having relationship problems, but I thought we were doing OK until I found out he has been lying. He went away for a long weekend with friends and they visited lapdancing clubs. I knew as soon as I picked them all up at the airport – they looked so guilty. But when I asked him later he lied, first about visiting a lapdancing club, then ab