You could be tolyamorous without realising it — but what does that mean?

A tolyamorous relationship dynamic is more common than you might think (Picture: Getty)‘I genuinely like him and I love the guy, but the concept of fidelity doesn’t seem to matter much in our marriage.’These are the words of Fiona* who’s in a tolyamorous relationship.Never heard of tolyamory? Coined by relationship podcaster Dan Savage, the term is a fusion of the words tolerate and polyamory.It refers to the relationship dynamic where one or both people in