The date was great – until he described his dream WhatsApp group

I liked him, but our goals clearly didn’t align (Picture: Liv Arnold)‘My dream is to have a child in every country,’ said Ivan*, as he cut into his steak at dinner.I paused with my fork halfway to my mouth. Surely, I’d misheard him.We’d been on our first date for 30 minutes, sitting beneath a canopy of vines outside a farm-to-table restaurant in Phuket. Fairy lights glowed above us.He was a fitness influencer – so, when I asked what he wanted most out of life