My date innocently suggested something women would be appalled at

I returned to a completely different dating landscape in my 40s (Picture: Louisa Gregson)When my date bailed on our plans in order to take care of his son at the very last minute, I felt a familiar thud of disappointment.  But then he offered up an alternative: ‘You could come to my house after he’s in bed and we could have a few drinks here instead?’ he suggested. I was horrified at the thought.  Why on earth do some men think it’s OK to ask a woman