How to stop money problems from ending your relationship

Q: I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years. We’re very compatible in almost every way except when it comes to finances. I would like us to pool our incomes instead of keeping our finances totally separate and start setting some goals, but he isn’t interested. He thinks things are fine just the way they are. Right now we just split our costs down the middle; I don’t really know how much he earns or if he has any debt. The truth is things aren’t fine a